If you are going to give a great handjob, avoid these mistakes.
FOCUSING TOO MUCH ON THE GLANS.
Try not to focus too much on the head of the penis. The head is quite sensitive and focusing so much attention there might start feeling not too pleasurable after a while. What you want to do is build a rhythm that involves intermittent stroking of the head and shaft for even better stimulation.
Also, you may have heard that the frenulum is a hot spot, it really is. But treat it like you treat the head of his penis. Don’t overstimulate it. Work the shaft and intermittently stroke the head and the frenulum.
IGNORING THE SHAFT
I know we think the head and frenulum are the major hotspots but trust me, the shaft is also very pleasurable. Stroking, kissing and teasing the shaft of the penis can be very enjoyable for your man, both as a build up and as the main action!
SQUEEZING TOO HARD
Yeah, it’s a hand-job but you don’t want to turn his cock to squashed meat, so handle his cock gently and with care. Switch between stroking lightly and firmly but not painfully, except your man is into mixing pain with pleasure and wants more heavy-duty handling.
GIVING DRY HANDJOBS
Never give dry handjobs. Always use lube or oils of your choice (my personal preference for oils is coconut or olive oil). Your saliva dries up pretty fast. The slicker your hands, the better. So before you even get to give your man a handjob, make sure your hands are well lubricated to provide maximum pleasure. Shop our lubricants here
Also importantly, be open to feedback to know what feels good to him. Each man will differ in his preference.