About Me

Hi, I am Olawunmi Esan, Nigeria’s leading Sex Therapist and Coach. I am the Founder of The Thriving Family, a Counselling Organisation working to promote positive and well balanced families, as well as, a founding member of The African Association Of Professional Counsellors (ANEPCO).

I am the  Creator of the groundbreaking Sex Coaching Course for Couples, BETTER LOVER , and the author of the highly acclaimed Urban Arousal, the erotic e-book series for Couples.

One of the reasons, I chose to explore this field was the Need to Provide an Avenue for people to learn about Sex positively.

Sex is considered a taboo topic by many, and most people tend not to discuss it. When there is a need to learn about Sex, most people either do not know where to turn for enlightenment or they turn to the “easiest” source they can find. The Internet and Porn.

Unfortunately, when people learn about Sex this way, there tends to either be a knowledge gap or the ‘information’ received creates unrealistic expectations of themselves and their partners. Thereby creating a recipe for disaster where Sex is concerned.

One of the things we do at Thriving Family, is provide an avenue for learning about Sex positively and thereby help couples enjoy Sex immensely in Marriage.

We provide Positive and Comprehensive Sexual education for Intending and Married couples through Online Courses, One on One Sessions, Sex Conferences and Events. Information and Education that is comprehensive, easy to learn and follow.

We also provide a safe and confidential space to address sexual concerns the proper way without fear of judgement or condemnation.

We help Married and Intending couples prioritize Great sex in marriage, not just at the beginning, but all through marriage. We desire to open their eyes to the possibilities of how sensational sex can be in marriage.

No matter how busy we are as human beings, our basic need for intimate connection still exists and once a marriage cannot provide that connection, the purpose of such marriage is called to question.

We want couples  (both intending and married) to understand that being great at Sex does not require a special skill. No one was born being great at Sex! It can be learned by anyone who shows interest and we are here to provide Sexual Enlightenment!

Other aspects of our services include:

  • Individual and Couples therapy
  • Sex Coaching for Intending Couples
  • Psychological Treatment of Sexual Dysfunction such as Erectile Dysfunction, Premature Ejaculation, Vaginismus etc
  • Sexual Trauma and Abuse Recovery
  • Sex Addiction Recovery

To work with us, please go through SERVICES and let us know how best we can be of help to you.

To view our Online Courses, Please go HERE

To book a Speaking Engagement, Please go HERE