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I had always thought that after 6 years of marriage and two kids, I had the sex aspect of my marriage on lockdown. It was therefore a rude shock when I started having difficulties maintaining an erection. It started gradually and got to the point that I was totally unable to get it up at all at times. That's when I decided to seek professional help. After a couple of sessions with Olawunmi, there was dramatic and tremendous improvement. I found out most of my problems actually stemmed from approaching sex from an angle of fear and uncertainty. With her help, I was able to reach in and tackle these issues head on. My supportive wife was also instrumental in the transformation as she also opened up on feeling like a 'victim' occasionally. We are better able to handle our expectations both in sex and marriage now. My profound gratitude goes to Olawunmi for her professionalism and candor.
Dr. Babatunde (United Kingdom)
Medical Doctor
As a very private person, talking about sex with anyone is very difficult for me. But I stumbled on Wunmi’s Instagram handle and I got interested. I am married with kids for almost a decade and sex was something I struggled with. So when I saw a woman(Wunmi) talk about sex in an unbiased way (not men versus women), talking like we were gisting about a book, I decided to reach out and I don’t regret it! She made me so comfortable that I was able to share so much burden. I could not believe the relief from having to be absolutely honest about my sex life! Best of us, I got her books and from our sessions, I started implementing what she taught me. Needless to say, my husband and I became better in the ‘other room’. I had mind blocks about sex and my husband too, but with the knowledge from Wunmi, we were both able to address our difficulty. Wunmi’s videos and other resource materials were invaluable! I am now beginning to feel like a freak in the bed too. I would recommend Wunmi to any man or woman having any remote issue in the sex department. Don’t let sex destroy your marriage/relationship, just call my Sex Therapist Olawunmi!
Mrs Tiwatope (Lagos)
I remember when I started following you on Twitter a while back. I thought of working with you to resolve some issues I had in my marriage but I never really made up my mind to. Eventually, an opportunity came when you opened a WhatsApp group and I got to know you more personally. I knew you were someone I could trust and also someone who had the capability to help me. I thank God that I made the decision to talk with you because it opened my eyes to things I needed to work on to improve my marriage. I am more open and trusting with my wife now and things are much better after my sessions with you. I can't say that I always enjoyed the process of therapy especially those occasions when you made me cry. Lol... but I would take that anyday over an unhappy marriage. I cannot thank you enough and I will recommend you to my friends and anyone I know who needs help with marriage and Sex. You were very professional but still supportive. You guided me and equipped me to work through the process and today my wife and I are much better for it. Thank you and God bless you
BAO (United Kingdom)

About Olawunmi

Olawunmi Esan is Nigeria’s leading Sex Therapist, and Coach. She is a trained Psychologist and a Certified Sex Therapist. She has worked with over 1,000 individuals, and couples to help them enjoy more fulfilling Intimacy and Sex lives…

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