My name is Olawunmi, and I am pleased to make your acquaintance.
I am a trained Psychologist who is specialized in Marriage and Sex Counseling. I am also a Christian (did the sex bit throw you off?).
I help married couples achieve desired intimacy and sexual fulfillment in marriage. I also provide Sex Counselling for intending couples to help prepare them adequately for Sex and Intimacy in marriage.
What was my motivation to explore this field?
First and foremost because God led me to.
However, other factors did come into play.
It is quite disturbing that a lot of people now see marriage as where Intimacy, Sex and Romance go to die and I am sure that it is no news to you that lack of intimacy and sex is one of the leading causes of divorce.
Quite a number of marriages today are on the brink of divorce simply because couples have placed their marriages on auto pilot and neglected intimacy.
So many marriages today seem like mere partnerships where all that is shared is a house, finances and custody of children.
It should never be that way.
Marriage was created for Companionship, Love, Romance, Enjoyment, Sexual fulfillment, Comfort and so many other beautiful reasons. Unfortunately, marriage has been re-purposed by many.
No matter how busy we are as human beings, our basic need for intimate connection still exists and once a marriage cannot provide that connection, the purpose of such marriage is called to question.
Too many couples short change themselves of the happiness that marriage should bring and when faced with the bitter reality that the marriage they have is not the marriage they want, rather than get down to the business of making things better, they begin to nurse the idea of getting a divorce.
My desire is to help married couples give themselves a chance to revive the love in their marriages and reignite the fires of sexual intimacy.
Another reason I do what I do is because the effects of divorce/a broken home has far reaching consequences. As a product of a broken home, I can tell you firsthand that the children suffer the most.
Let me tell you a bit more about myself.
As a product of a broken home, I went into marriage, praying not to end up a divorcee but fearing that would be my destiny.
I took into marriage my fears, worries, anxieties, hang ups and mistrust I shouldered as a result of the home I came from.
Although I was bent on not playing the victim, many times I took the wrong approach and made the wrong decisions because I was ferociously trying to protect myself from getting hurt.
Fast forward years later, By The Grace of God, I am still married, happily married at that and I am confident that I will always be.
Has it been smooth sailing all the way? It most definitely has not!!!
I had to learn so many things the hard way. However, in all, The Grace of God, the willingness to learn, the loving heart of my husband, the openness to intimacy and the discovery of the full power of my sexuality went a long way in making my marriage a far better one than I ever imagined.
Not all products of broken homes are that lucky
My desire is to help you enjoy deep and true intimacy that leads to a more fulfilled and thoroughly enjoyable marriage.
If you would like to work with me, please go through MY SERVICES and let me know how best I can be of help to you.
Divorce is not an option for YOU!!!